Venting to relieve stress

I wrote about my husband yesterday... It got deleted by the admins... Was the content of my post the problem? It was a post implying I suspect there's a reason behind his actions. He's close to retirement, so he won't get tested now, and I'm grateful he's been the sole breadwinner supporting our family for years, but... I still suspect him. It's important to strengthen measures against cyberbullying on social media these days, but if words are restricted, you can't convey what you want to say... Especially with Japanese, there are too many words that are considered NG overseas... My child has a developmental disability, but just adding the character '児' (child) makes it an NG word... I don't know if it's reacting to the pronunciation with a different kanji, or if it's recognized as having harm in the literal sense of the kanji. If it was deleted this time, it means the AI judged 'breadwinner' as a malicious term. Or maybe it's because I omitted 'developmental' and only wrote 'breadwinner'? If it wasn't deleted this time, it must have reacted to the word 'breadwinner'... AI moderation is too early for Japan when it flags perfectly normal Japanese sentences as NG...