So fed up

For over 10 years, I've been expected to do the dishes at night, laundry, and prepare the kids' lunch sets for the next day, as if it were natural. But when they're in a bad mood, they yell at me, "You don't have to do the dishes or laundry, just try putting the kids to sleep!" 💢 If they would just ask nicely, like "Could you also put them to sleep?", I'd do anything. It's always yelling, complaining, and whining. Their words are too harsh. Their personality is too bad. Learn how to handle people properly already. Truly unpleasant.