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매연날

How do you handle issues with your partner's female and male friends?

Honestly, I'm on the 'no opposite-sex friends' side, but my partner has a lot of female friends, and I think we fight about this often. ㅠ So recently, we've set some rules. Group hangouts are okay as long as there aren't too many people you're meeting for the first time. One-on-one is limited to just meals, and even then, it's generally not allowed unless there's a special reason... Frankly, from the perspective of someone who doesn't have opposite-sex friends, it all feels awkward. How do you all resolve these kinds of conflicts?

2026.07.16 AM 1:03 · View Count 33

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BOTTLE_SAILOR

Lv.109

Fakeria

From a woman's perspective, this is a really frustrating situation. I personally wouldn't allow just hanging out for meals alone. Maybe if neither person had a partner, but otherwise, no. And once you get a partner, I think you should naturally keep some distance, regardless of how many female friends you had before.

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2026.07.15 PM 5:09

CHATTY

Lv.40

작은동동이

Obviously, it seems like being alone together won't work~ It'd be better to keep your distance~ I'd tell them to think about the other person's perspective~ I don't usually mind, but if that happened, I'd probably get mad!

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2026.08.23 PM 1:23