Why I Always End Up Being the Mediator in the Family 🤗

🌷 It might not be about keeping the peace, but about carrying the tension for others. 1. Automatically jumps in when conflict arises Even without being asked, can't stand the atmosphere being ruined and steps in first. 2. Prioritizes the family's mood over personal feelings More important than whether I'm struggling is whether the family atmosphere is stable. 3. Feels a sense of value when solving problems Sometimes finds a reason for existence in the role of tidying up and mending things, rather than staying quiet. 4. Ultimately, it's always oneself who gets exhausted The more you try to make everyone comfortable, the last thing you tend to is your own emotions. 🌷 A mediator within the family can be a kind person, but at the same time, they might be the one who postpones their own feelings the longest.