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TIP_BLACK_HOLE
Lv.103

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[Question] T types, how would you handle this?

Someone I've had a crush on for a while contacted me, saying they had a problem. "I don't need solutions, just listen to me." So I listened intently, and then suddenly they asked: "But what do you *want* me to do?" How would you respond in this situation? Assume this person is someone you like^-^

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PLAYIO_VETERAN

Lv.42

์‹œ์•„์‹œ์•„์‹œ

Ah, so you need my advice after all! I'll put my thinking cap on and help you figure it out, I bet.

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2026.10.26 AM 7:51

TIP_BLACK_HOLE

Lv.33

๋Œ€๋‹จํ•œ๊ฐœํŠธ๋กค716

First I thought, 'Are they kidding me?' and then I explained it logically.

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2026.10.26 AM 7:54

PLAYIO_VETERAN

Lv.51

YUBIO

If it were me, I'd pause, quickly sort out the situation and my thoughts in my head, come up with several options (like 'n' of them), and then eliminate the less effective ones. Or, I'd recommend a method like, 'This is what I would do.' People with decision paralysis tend to listen to their friends' advice for the former, and make decisions based on the latter.

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2026.10.26 AM 8:04

Lv.38

๋‚˜๋‚˜9219

The moment I heard you say 'just listen to me,' I was already thinking about solutions... And I'm a little excited because you can explain it step-by-step and clearly.

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2026.10.26 AM 8:29

TIP_CHAIRMAN

Lv.64

์œ ์‹œYucy

You might think they're being two-faced, but I think they'd still answer lololol

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2026.10.26 AM 8:36

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PLAYIO_VETERAN

Lv.42

iruda0101

You really need my advice, don't you? You'd probably say something like, 'What would you have done without me?' and just tell me.

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2026.10.26 AM 8:54

DILIGENT

Lv.1

์ฐจ์ฑ ๋ช…์šด

It seems like you just wanted confirmation for an answer that was already decided? ใ…‹ใ…‹ใ…‹ If you were really curious as a T, it feels like you already gave the answer and asked, 'What do you want me to do?'!

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2026.10.26 AM 9:09

Lv.2

๊ฒŒ์ž„์ค‘๋„ํฌ๊ธฐ์ค‘

I want you to take it straightforwardly, that's the vibe lololol

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2026.10.26 AM 9:43

PLAYIO_VETERAN

Lv.50

์น˜ํ‚จ๋ง›์žˆ๋‹น

It might sound contradictory, making you wonder 'What kind of person are they?', but since I like them, I guess they'll at least consider it.

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2026.10.26 AM 10:17

FORGETFUL

Lv.76

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It depends on the person, but if you give advice when the answer is already obvious, they might lose interest. "Listen to my story" -> High chance it's an F who's going through a tough or frustrating situation and wants empathy. "What should I do?" -> They definitely would have talked about the person or situation that troubled them before saying this. They're much more likely to want someone to take their side rather than an objective solution. In these cases, I recommend badmouthing the other party with them first, then if you want to offer a solution, suggest one they'd prefer or try to build rapport by asking 'Need help?'

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2026.10.26 AM 10:43

KEEPER_OF_MEMORIES

Lv.100

๋‹ฌ๋น›ํฌ๋ฃจ

I feel like they'd say, "What do you want me to do? Just do whatever you want~"

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2026.10.26 AM 10:45

TIP_CHAIRMAN

Lv.74

๊น…๊น…์•„๋ฆฌ

I just let things go in one ear and out the other... So what's the conclusion you're looking for??

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2026.10.26 AM 10:48

GEM_OVERLORD

Lv.106

๋‚ด๋ง˜์—์ด๋Š”๋ฐ”๋žŒ

You said there's no solution.

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2026.10.26 PM 12:04

NEWBIE

Lv.107

์ง ๋‚ด๋‚˜๋Š”ํ…Œํฌ

I'd just tell you what I would have done if I were you.

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2026.10.26 PM 12:17