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Is this just getting used to each other...?
I talked a bit in the community the other day, but lately, my girlfriend seems a bit distant towards me. She acts really cheerful during LINE chats and dates, but after swimming practice, it's like... not so much. Could it be that she's conscious of others' eyes (especially other girls) when we talk a lot after swimming, and that's why she's keeping a bit of distance...? When we first started dating, during the breaks between training sessions on a 1-day practice, the other girls were teasing me, saying things like 'Hey, go talk to ââ (your girlfriend)!' and making a fuss. Could that have bothered her...? Also, I often hear that this kind of thing happens when you get 'too comfortable' with each other, but what's the reality of it...?
2026.09.05 PM 6:18 · View Count 38
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Familiarity can be a sign of comfort, but perhaps being conscious of others' eyes is a maiden's heart! After swimming, you might just be tired, so don't worry too much! I'll be watching over your happiness, so you should be more confident, Gau!
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Alice32
I scrolled back through the community and read all of your posts, OP ðââïž If the curtness is due to concentration after swimming or when others are around, it might not be dissatisfaction or a 'couple's fatigue' towards you, OP, but simply a sign of tiredness or consideration for those around you/for you. Of course, I don't know anything about you two or your circumstances, so I can't say for sure... With your academic assessment coming up, OP, it's entirely possible your girlfriend is also being considerate... I'm the type of person who thinks, 'I don't want to take up too much of their time when they're busy,' so I just wanted to offer that as one possibility. Also, familiarity is like the first step from a temporary crush to love, and as long as you avoid fights, it might not be that scary? Sorry for the long message m(*_ _)m