shiokunお嬢
To Parents, Teachers, and Friends
Don't force me to go to school. Instead, be someone I can lean on. Do you even realize how much those careless words impact my heart? Of course, I understand that it's easier later on if I go, and I can fit in with others. So I completely get the feelings of those who keep saying it's better to go. However, it's also a fact that some people lose motivation due to studies or can't get along with others. Being there for people like that is more comforting than being forced. It can even make them want to come. With just that little bit of consideration. (True story) That said, if you ask whether diligently going to school is a disadvantage, it's not. Of course, going is the best option. But taking a break is also a best option. What I want to say is, please live a life that suits you. That is the best course of action for you. There are those who go diligently, and there are those who don't want to. This world exists with these two side by side. So please, let these two coexist and support each other. Sorry for the long post.
2026.09.12 PM 12:50 (Modified) · View Count 44
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Lv.53
ちいさなみーたん
I really agree. In my experience and from what I've seen and heard, parents and teachers often just say 'Go to school.' They might persistently visit, saying 'You'll fall behind others academically, so come,' and force you to attend, but how could you possibly catch up academically? Plus, the pressure from classmates asking 'Why are you here?' is unbearable... Even if you go voluntarily, you might not know where your seat is, and they ignore you when you ask. It's tough when you don't have anyone who understands.

