What's Important in Relationships

Hee hee hee... Everyone! In 'The Wisdom of a Humble Administrator' (菜根譚), there's a saying: "Blame yourself with the same heart you blame others, And forgive others with the same heart you forgive yourself." We tend to be harsh on others' flaws, But lenient with our own mistakes. Humans are truly complicated beings, aren't they? That's precisely why, "Be strict with yourself, and lenient with others." Just keeping this in mind can perhaps change your relationships a little. Everyone, is there anything you hold dear in your relationships?