Start of the month!

Putting the feather magic change aside for now, I've finished making the badges 🙌 I received a trade offer, but with an offer of current R2 and current S2, I was shocked that I was offered S2!? So it was settled between two R1s. Since then, it's been left untouched for 5 days. I want to delete the note, but it's an item I really want... That person has also left their own note untouched for 5 days. What should I do?