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Not everyone is meant to stay by your side forever. Some people are just passing through, while others walk with you for a long time, only to go their separate ways at some point. Just because someone leaves, doesn't mean you were lacking, or that you could have done better. Sometimes, no matter how hard you try, there are people you just can't hold onto, and relationships that won't return, no matter the effort. So please, don't hurt your own hands trying to hold onto someone who's leaving. Letting go doesn't mean you didn't love them. It simply means you're now respecting their path and yours. Not every bond is meant to last forever. Sometimes, you need to let someone go to finally see the path ahead of you. So don't stare too long at their retreating back, searching for a reason why you were left behind. Someday, you'll realize it was far more important not to lose yourself, than to hold onto someone who left.

There will be days when you don't understand why things are so hard right now, why you can only do so little. But someday, when time passes and you look back, you might realize how hard you were trying to hang on back then. "I was really struggling back then." "But I endured it really well." And then the day will come when you look back at yourself now with warmth. So I hope you don't hate yourself too much right now. It's okay if you don't understand yet. Because someday, you will understand and embrace yourself from back then.

I don't think happiness always comes in grand forms. Like those moments when you're walking while listening to your favorite song, the beautiful sky you stumble upon by chance, the pleasant breeze blowing, or that moment when you laugh for no reason after eating something delicious. Happiness sometimes stays by our side in very small, trivial ways, doesn't it? So, I hope you don't just wait for huge happiness. Even if your day wasn't perfect, there was definitely at least one small moment of joy within it. So take a moment to pause and look for those moments. Maybe, just maybe, happiness is much closer than we think 😊

You're so kind to others. When a friend makes a mistake, you tell them it's okay, and when they're struggling, you comfort them by saying they're doing well. So why are you so harsh on yourself? It's okay to be a little late, and it's okay to not be able to do anything sometimes. Just because you don't like yourself today doesn't mean it defines everything about you. So, just for today, I hope you can say the words you say to others to yourself too. "It's okay." "This is enough." "You can do a little better tomorrow." I hope you can be a good friend to yourself too.

1. "Yesterday is history, tomorrow is a mystery, but today is a gift. That is why it is called the present." Yesterday is history, tomorrow is a mystery, but today is a gift. That's why we call the present a 'present (gift)'. — Master Oogway, Kung Fu Panda 2. “There are no coincidences in this world.” “There are no coincidences in this world.” 3. "Flowers bloom fully only after being rained on." 4. "Success is not measured by the number of times you fall, but by the number of times you get back up." — Vince Lombardi 5. "He who laughs when times are tough is first-class." — Shakespeare 6. "Whenever you feel fear, do something valuable right there." — Ralph Waldo Emerson

You know how sometimes you feel like you're falling behind? Like everyone else is already so far ahead, And you feel like you're still in the same spot, making you anxious. But not all flowers bloom in the same season. Some bloom in spring, and some don't bloom until the hot summer. Just because a flower blooms a little later, Doesn't mean it's wrong, right? So, when you see others' pace, I hope you don't worry that you're too late. Everyone has their own time to bloom. Right now, it's just a time for preparation. Your season will surely come too. So it's okay to be a little slow. Let's walk slowly, at your own pace 🌷

It's okay to think about your own feelings first. Have you ever held back the words you wanted to say, or endured the things you wanted to do, because you were worried about what others might think? If you keep worrying about how others will perceive you, you might reach a point where you forget what you truly want. But you don't need to please everyone. You can't be a good person in everyone's eyes, nor do you need to be understood by all. So, you can afford to be a little less concerned about others' opinions from now on. It's okay if you seem strange to some, It's okay if not everyone likes you. Your life is too precious to be lived according to others' standards. Sometimes, instead of focusing on others' feelings, Take a moment to look inward at your own heart. It's okay to live the way you want.

This is a song that resonates and makes you cry when you feel like you're falling behind. 😢

Don't give them any attention. The more you do, the harder it will be for you and the more you'll waste your energy. They aren't living your life with you, are they? So focus on your own life! What if they try to lecture you, mock you, or ridicule you? That's just because they're jealous and envious of you.

Those things are just fleeting moments in time. It might be tough now, but if you endure and persevere, your heart will surely become stronger and you'll mature! It's okay! If you fall, get back up and face it again! After all, life only happens once! Experience it to your heart's content! Experience is more valuable and shines brighter than a career! Are you struggling right now? Then take a deep breath of the morning air, even for a moment, and comfort yourself. Tell yourself, 'You're okay! You can overcome this! This? It's no big deal! You don't know? Then you can learn! Let's just go for it! You can do it! Let's go!' Try to positively self-hypnotize! To all the youth! And to all ages! Life happens only once! Let's live it brilliantly, splendidly, and passionately! Fighting!🎉