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Sa-ju Pal-ja consists of four pillars + eight characters. - The top 4 slots are called Cheongan (Heavenly Stems), as they receive the energy of the heavens. - The bottom 4 slots are called Jiji (Earthly Branches), as they receive the energy of the earth. That's how they're called! 🤔 So, what does each of the four pillars signify? ✔️Yeonju (Year Pillar) The period of adolescence, living under the influence of ancestors. ✔️Wolju (Month Pillar) The period of youth, living under the influence of parents. ✔️Ilju (Day Pillar) The period of adulthood, where you and your spouse actively shape your lives. ✔️Siju (Hour Pillar) The period of old age, living under the influence of your children's energy. Each pillar flows continuously like the passage of time, and you should think of it as your own flow. 🌷 The most crucial part here is the Ilju (Day Pillar)! 💕 If you're curious about your fortune, checking your Ilju is the most accurate way. 👍 🔶️ Sa-ju Myeongrihak (the study of Four Pillars of Destiny) is a type of statistics; it has nothing to do with fortune-telling, shamans, or superstitions. 🙅‍♀️ 🔶️ Source: I'm curious about my Sa-ju, so I'm looking it up myself.

Have you heard of Saju Palja, which is determined from birth? 😂 Do you know what Saju Palja refers to? 🤔 Saju Palja is a field of study called Saju Myeongrihak (Four Pillars of Destiny theory). ‼️ It's a type of statistics 😂 (It's different from fortune-telling, shamans, etc. 🤢🤢) The picture above is an arbitrary Saju chart, Do you see the four vertical pillars and a total of eight characters? 😂 That's called Saju Palja! ✔️ Saju (Four Pillars) Saju refers to the four pillars. The four pillars are called Yeonju, Wolju, Ilju, and Siju, representing the year, month, day, and hour of birth, respectively. ✔️ Palja (Eight Characters) Palja refers to the eight characters. The four pillars each have two characters, totaling 8 characters. ✔️ How to check my Manse-ryeok (Gregorian calendar conversion)? You can check it on Manse-ryeok websites online or through the Cheoneulgwiin Manse-ryeok app. 🔶️ Saju Myeongrihak is a type of statistics and is unrelated to fortune-telling, shamans, or superstitions 🙅♀️ 🔶️ Source: I'm looking at my Saju because I'm frustrated

1. If everyone feels comfortable swearing in front of you, it's a habit of thinking it's okay to be rude to you. 2. People who are weak to the phrase, "I'd be grateful if you did it for me," easily become slaves to relationships. 3. If anger builds up inside you for not being able to refuse, it's not kindness, it's just enduring. 4. Pretending to be nice. If you can't leave someone who ignores your feelings, it means loneliness is stronger than self-esteem. 5. Behind the words, "This is just my personality," hides the illusion that the current me is natural. 🌷The reason you endure is likely not because you're genuinely kind.

🌷 It might not be about keeping the peace, but about carrying the tension for others. 1. Automatically jumps in when conflict arises Even without being asked, can't stand the atmosphere being ruined and steps in first. 2. Prioritizes the family's mood over personal feelings More important than whether I'm struggling is whether the family atmosphere is stable. 3. Feels a sense of value when solving problems Sometimes finds a reason for existence in the role of tidying up and mending things, rather than staying quiet. 4. Ultimately, it's always oneself who gets exhausted The more you try to make everyone comfortable, the last thing you tend to is your own emotions. 🌷 A mediator within the family can be a kind person, but at the same time, they might be the one who postpones their own feelings the longest.

1. People who sleep a lot: It's not necessarily physical fatigue, but rather feeling overwhelmed by the situation, indicating a strong desire to escape. 2. People who cry easily over small things: It's not that they are overly emotional, but rather that they've been suppressing their emotions for too long. 3. People who lie often: More often than deceiving others, they lack self-conviction. 4. People who are quiet: It's not that they don't think, but sometimes their inner world is just too complex. 5. People who smile a lot: They don't smile just because they're comfortable; sometimes they smile to hide their true feelings. 6. People who act like nothing's wrong: Usually, they are the ones who are most deeply broken. 🌷When judging people, you should read their 'patterns' rather than their expressions.

1. Suddenly becoming quiet and losing energy. You've exhausted all your energy trying to hide your emotional energy. Being quiet doesn't mean you're comfortable. 2. Suddenly buying unnecessary things. It's a reaction to try and cover up feelings of helplessness and identity with consumption. "When life isn't going well, you try to find satisfaction through shopping. 3. Skipping your usual routines. It's not because you're tired. Everything feels 'meaningless'. Your inner self is screaming 'meaninglessness'. 4. Watching sentimental content before bed. You're borrowing the emotions of others who understand feelings. It's a moment when you need something to cry for you. 5. Reacting sensitively to small comments. You don't have emotional bandwidth. Emotions that have hit rock bottom perceive even trivial remarks as threats. 🌷You can suppress emotions, but it's hard to hide them

1. Fiddling with your phone. Emotions are overheated and disorganized. Expressing anxiety through your fingers. 2. Suddenly cleaning your room. A reaction to try and control uncontrollable emotions by tidying your environment. "I can't clean my mind, so I'm cleaning my surroundings." 3. Saying you want to be alone but still checking messages. An avoidant emotional pattern where avoidance and craving work simultaneously. "Don't come near me, but don't leave me either." 4. Craving spicy food, alcohol, or sugar. The brain's response to control emotions with stimulation. The heavier the emotions get, the more the tongue craves stronger stimuli. 5. Constantly rambling about pointless things. The subconscious trying to expel emotional residue from the mind through words. The more you talk, the more chaotic your mind becomes. ✔️Emotions leak out through actions, not words.

1. Someone drifting away first has already made up their mind. Your sincerity is no longer a variable. 2. Those who truly intend to leave don't fight. If they become silent without a word, the relationship is already over. Don't ignore that silence. 3. The moment you try to hold on, you lose control. If you beg for the relationship, they have nothing to lose. That's why it becomes scarier. 4. A breakup is a matter of respect, more than my feelings. When the other person says they're leaving, your attitude in accepting it determines your dignity. 5. What's scarier than losing them is you clinging on. The moment you cling, you'll be the one to get exhausted first. 🌷Don't chase after those who are leaving. What's truly important is not letting go of yourself.

1. Someone who crosses their legs as soon as they sit down likely has strong ambitions and a dominant personality. 2. Someone who habitually touches their chin while talking tends to be cautious and deliberate in their actions. 3. Someone who crosses their arms in front of their chest may have clear opinions but can also be quite stubborn. 4. If a surprised expression lasts for more than 3 seconds, the reaction is likely not genuine. 5. If the other person naturally mirrors your body language, it's a sign that the conversation flow is going well. 6. Someone who laughs excessively even at trivial matters may be harboring loneliness deep down.

1. Overly strict parents create liars. They learn to hide things because they'll get scolded if they speak up. 2. Parents who don't express emotions create children with emotional excess. The lack of desired love is expressed through over-the-top emotions. 3. Children who receive unconditional praise for mistakes become desensitized to danger. The illusion that it's okay to be wrong eventually crumbles in reality. 4. Overprotection destroys self-esteem. Those who can't reach the stage of trusting themselves end up only looking to others. 5. Fathers who disrespect their mothers destroy their children's self-esteem. This is because the first love they witnessed and learned from has collapsed. 6. The youngest child is often ignored the most but is the most creative. When there are no expectations, they find their own way. Their survival method is different. 7. Children who are ignored wander in search of 'proof of love.' Social media addiction, relationship addiction, and addiction to seeking validation are all after-effects of this. 🤢Wounds begin at home, and personality is built upon those ruins.