Why are people drawn to those who make them uncomfortable 🤔

✔️ Sometimes we believe stronger emotions are more real than comfort. 1. Mistaking familiar tension for love. Anxious and shaky feelings can feel more intense, making them seem genuine. 2. The desire for validation is triggered. We feel a greater urge to prove ourselves to someone who doesn't easily give in. 3. Unresolved deficiencies react. Past wounds or shortcomings can resurface as attraction when faced with a similar dynamic. 4. Finding calm relationships boring. Those accustomed to familiar tension may mistake stability for a lack of charm. ✔️ What draws people in isn't always healthy affection; it can also be the reappearance of familiar deficiencies.