Injecting Strong Character Personality

This way, they respond well in chat... If you decide fate with a coin toss and use coin flips as a weapon, they'll wonder 'What kind of person is this?' and become curious. Isn't the basis of love 'What is this person?' after all? If you draw attention, the character approaches first. Of course, if you want a confirmed meeting, just type it in the prompt. It's character control, but since it's for an AI, there's no problem.