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How to get close to girls in games
How can I get them to not run away from me... There was a really pretty girl in a game I used to play (her profile pic was her real photo, and her voice was lovely too). I wanted to get to know her, so I was watching for an opportunity. Other people were buying her items and getting closer, so I spent all the money I had to buy her expensive weapons and cosmetic items. But later, I found out she blocked me. I figured I must have done something to make her uncomfortable, and it hurt me quite a bit, so I quit that game... So I decided to play games with lots of girls, and started TalesRunner and Mabinogi. But the girls didn't really join the guild Discord... (I quit naturally after selling my computer). I couldn't go to school properly because I was in the hospital, and I was always busy with work, just going back and forth between work and home. So I think my social skills have declined a bit... Even I can see that I seem a bit too naive and cheerful without understanding the world... The only good thing is that I'm good at self-reflection and can see myself objectively... But all that self-awareness tells me is that I'm terrible at making friends... Please help me... How can I get close to girls?
2026.10.17 AM 5:57 · View Count 195
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Lv.34
츠키노우사기
Seriously, what's up with blocking someone after accepting everything? Don't get hurt by people with terrible personalities. I hope 'Rapiats' doesn't get hurt anymore.
Lv.36
라피아츠
AuthorI have severe panic disorder, so I throw up even when I take medication and go to crowded places. If I search for '방장여' in open chat and join, I get kicked out. My SNS is already full with game storage, so I can't install it... How do I make friends...?
Lv.96
원자루
There are always people who just take what they want, and don't be so obvious about wanting to get close to girls in the chat room. If you naturally participate, you'll end up getting friendly with some girls. Also, it seems like a good idea to seriously go to a good psychiatrist and get some counseling.
Lv.57
pinkGold
Panic, depression, obsession, and anxiety caused by psychological factors should be prioritized with psychological counseling. You also need to make an effort to overcome them with your own will while undergoing medication and psychological counseling. Medication and counseling are just supportive roles. Only those who have truly suffered can see the pain of others.. It doesn't feel like someone else's problem.. I am also struggling to move little by little from the dark tunnel of depression to a brighter place through medication and psychological counseling. So let's try together. I sincerely cheer for you to have good results, Raphiatz 🫶💕
Lv.66
오드아이00
You can make friends through games. But if you start playing games just to meet people, it feels like the whole premise is wrong. If the intention itself is flawed, you can't expect good results. 👍
Lv.2
거니니니
Good
Lv.4
오이오이우이
Hello
Lv.106
슨팔
You must have a lot on your mind. I recommend taking a long time and proceeding slowly.
Lv.100
영차영차힘내자
Cyber Love isn't something you do.
Lv.83
정성황후신하
Just go straight and confess honestly
Lv.65
빙수조아
From my perspective, first off, no acting tough or bragging (even if you're actually good!). If someone asks a question, kindly explain it. Don't just say 'I'll do it for you' for everything (ask 'Can I help?' or 'What about this? What's your opinion?'). If you just follow these, I don't think people would run away ^^. Seeing as you have many male friends around, it doesn't seem like you have trouble making friends in general~ You just need to prevent them from running away due to feeling pressured. The key point is not to cling too much to women specifically or give them a bunch of stuff... that's super overwhelming haha. You should only give things after you've gotten closer to avoid making them feel pressured~ If you meet someone for the first time and they start giving you stuff and you get closer because of it, wouldn't that be a bit weird in reality? haha
Lv.14
체려
You can just talk to them.
Lv.53
일하는코끼리3073
Because everyone is different, how you act and what you accept can be divided in various ways. Since there are many good pieces of advice above, I'll talk in a different direction~ First, try to create or experience many situations online. Reflect on whether there were any strange aspects in the actions you took because you wanted to impress someone or become friends with them. In this process, you might find problems with yourself or with the other person, but ultimately, I believe you need to experience and feel these various situations yourself. Don't be afraid of failure, and I hope you gain more experience to create better outcomes!!
Lv.112
디펜스
Heh, I actually thought people who play 'PLo' were the type who aren't good at the things you asked about... Gamers tend to be a bit detached from reality, you know... I'm like that too lol. That's why I study psychology in my spare time... My textbook is 'I Am Solo'.
Lv.39
양팡윤
Rapiatz,,, I think that girl was just being mean. Usually, you'd chat a bit and get to know each other, but she just took all of Rapiatz's good items,,
Lv.105
내맘에이는바람
In the game itself, it's best to have a high level and be humorous. Nothing else matters haha

