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In-laws' Pressure
I don't know where to begin. Is there anyone who can bear our pressure!! I'm 28 years old, and we have to wake up at 5 AM to exercise. My in-laws nag me all day, saying I'll die if I don't take care of my body. Otherwise, they threaten to take their spouse (my husband) with them to death. I cook breakfast, I cook lunch, I cook dinner! Every meal is an occasion for nagging. No care, just constant scolding every day. If there's work at my husband's company, I have to go with him to work. After coming back, I cook, take care of the kids, go out for exercise, and then come back to listen to their nagging. We can only go upstairs to shower and tidy the room at 9 PM. They nag me literally all day, I don't know what to do!! I'm going crazy! Is anyone in the same situation as me......
2026.09.14 PM 7:40 · View Count 124
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Lv.99
無我
Every family has its own habits, so living together can lead to a lot of friction. I don't recommend living with your in-laws.
Lv.17
NakakoLin
You've worked hard... My advice is to move out on your own. Otherwise, you'll eventually break down.
Good job.
Lv.86
亂我玩
Good job.
Lv.47
ncnc
Live separately or at least next door.
Lv.98
娜娜Anna
Good job.
Lv.102
伊歐
Talk it over with your husband. If you can move out, you should. Staying here isn't a solution...
Lv.82
Maggieccc
Good job.
Lv.59
肥皮皮320
Good job.
Lv.40
古紫瑄
What's a husband good for?
Lv.100
閃亮的幸運星
Good job. Elders are indeed like that. Have you encouraged them to take lifelong learning courses?
Lv.72
beckylin
My mother-in-law also nags a lot, but I'm not as exhausted as you. You have to cook three meals a day normally. At least I have my job, which lets me escape from that house and avoid facing my mother-in-law directly. I feel like women are really better off working outside the home.
Lv.92
紫芋布蕾
Almost every household has the mother-in-law nagging.