阿不不
Went to mediation for 6000 yuan
The other day, I drove my husband to the dentist. I personally hate the smell of dental clinics, so I waited in the car. I parked my car in a parking spot, and shortly after, a car behind me bumped into it while parking. A paint scratch from their license plate was left on my car's rear. After reporting it, the other party's attitude was good, saying they would compensate me. I got an estimate from the repair shop, which was about 6000 yuan, and informed the other party of the amount. However, after a month, they stopped answering calls and messages. Since I couldn't reach them, I had to seek help from a mediation committee. On the day of mediation, while waiting, I could vaguely hear discussions about how to handle houses worth millions or how to coordinate land disputes in the tens of thousands. When it was our turn, I directly told the mediation committee member that I wanted double the compensation, 12000 yuan. It's not that I'm trying to rip them off. I just felt that this 'a-ju-ma's' attitude was problematic. Since you made me go through this trouble, I think it's only right to ask for some travel expenses. In the end, we negotiated for 10000 yuan, and they wanted to pay in three installments?! The 'a-ju-ma' just kept crying poverty throughout the process. Constantly saying things like, "You want money even for a small scratch." The classic line from the mediation committee member: "No one here ever tells me they have a lot of money." Conclusion If you can't drive, don't drive. You can hit a parked car, so if you're a bad driver, just pay up properly.
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Lv.98
ht
Thankfully, the mediation was successful on the first try.
Lv.37
喵斯拉
This just goes to show: if you drag your feet and don't deal with it, things will only get worse, not better. So stop running away from it.
Lv.65
御守蓮
Glad it was successful after just one mediation. I was in a car accident recently, and it failed even after four mediations. It broke down within five minutes of going to mediation, and the other party kept crying poverty and dragging it out (for over half a year). I eventually sued him directly for negligent injury, plus civil damages. What left a deep impression was that the judge himself said he was shameless and inconsistent with his words, and the key point was that all the records, videos, and related materials could completely determine his responsibility.
Lv.77
暗夜幽香
How much will the final compensation be?
Lv.100
閃亮的幸運星
Adjusting is tiring, it would be best if it could be done in one go.
Lv.83
乂楓糖乂
Luckily, it succeeded on the first try.
Lv.66
婭修
Glad it's resolved.
Lv.72
討厭鬼
Good job.
Lv.18
安海瑟葳
Fortunately, the ajumma didn't keep pushing it.
Lv.86
亂我玩
Ended up losing more.
Lv.80
五賣
Be careful, you might only pay the first time and then there's no follow-up.
Lv.37
Terry張
This was intentional, bullying the honest ones. She's betting that you guys hate trouble and wasting time, and that you'll think suing her will cost more time and effort, so you'll give up. It's good that you guys persisted and dealt with it, otherwise she would have gotten away with it.
Lv.78
自由女神2
Be careful
Lv.38
卡皮風
The picture really illustrates your point perfectly! 😁😁
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Lv.60
冰寶貝
It's rising well. Bad attitude really pisses people off.
Congratulations on resolving it successfully!
Lv.70
麗
Glad it's resolved! Let that bad mood float away.
Lv.62
OlgaOripa
As long as they pay, it's more of a hassle to go to court for forced execution.