Game Party

I actually created a game party called 'justplay', but its main focus is to play without pressure and have fun. However, seeing someone constantly at the bottom makes me unhappy. If you're joining a party, isn't it because you want to earn gems together? Why join if you're not going to play? In the end, I couldn't stand it and had to kick people out. I don't want to give people who don't put in effort a chance to get rewards without working for them. It's like relationships; I feel like giving up when I see I'm the only one trying and my partner is slacking off. I'm not an exceptionally talented person, but I'm not a slacker either. Is it really that difficult to find someone who puts in effort, whether it's in a game or a relationship?