Twelve Reminders

Twelve Reminders 1. Don't preemptively worry about things that haven't happened. 2. Don't repeatedly judge things that have already passed. 3. Don't rush to assume things are about you when others speak casually. 4. Don't blame yourself entirely for things you can't control. 5. Don't chase answers for messages that receive no reply. 6. Don't rush to get closer in relationships that always require guesswork. 7. Don't force yourself to agree to requests beyond your capabilities. 8. When you need to rest, don't feel guilty for stopping. 9. Don't rush to judge failures for results that haven't yet appeared. 10. Don't use others' dazzling lives to belittle yourself. 11. Don't wait for everyone's approval for things you genuinely love. 12. Don't let your own life be solely about conforming.