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A Word of Kindness or Cruelty: It's All in Your Mind (Part 2)
After the tool shed was built, he came to me and said, "I absolutely have to go and humiliate my neighbor. I'll tell him that Chinese people aren't to be trifled with. I've already checked with the government authorities, and what I'm building now is completely legal. He's welcome to sue me!" "Why do you have to say it like that?" I advised him. "Why not try a different approach? Say something like, 'Thank you so much. It's fortunate you reminded me, otherwise my tool shed would have been two feet larger, and I would have had to tear it down for being illegal. I would have built it in vain.' Wouldn't that still let him know you've checked with the government and that the construction is now legal?" My friend thought about it and agreed it made sense, so he followed my advice. As a result, he not only didn't offend his neighbor but also made a good friend.
2026.10.06 PM 1:51 · View Count 10
Lv.1
歐路爾
In a moment of reflection, conflict can be transformed into a bridge of friendship. Your story is full of wisdom, reminding us that gentle communication can often lead to unexpected symbiotic relationships.
Lv.85
災星陳
This friend isn't good. Someone warned them, but it turns out they wanted to lash out at their neighbor afterward. If your thoughts are good, you see everything positively, but if your thoughts are bad, you become suspicious of everything.
Lv.74
洋娃娃
Good post.