欣儒
Maintain a bit of 'Insensitivity Power'
One of the greatest weaknesses of human nature is caring about how others perceive you. People who are overly concerned with others' opinions find it difficult to live life with ease. Nietzsche wrote in his book: "You don't need to be sensitive all the time; sometimes, insensitivity can be a virtue." Try to interpret language from a benevolent perspective and maintain a sense of being less sensitive than the other person. This is a secret to socializing and a form of compassion for others. Learn to let go of sensitivity and insecurity, be a little *insensitive* to external matters, and don't let others' words and actions sway your state of mind. Have more insensitivity and less worry. When your mind is simple, you live a relaxed and free life. Don't be overly sensitive to minor mistakes or blunt remarks made by others. Pretending to be foolish and being insensitive allows you to live comfortably. Don't be someone who "lives in others' eyes and dies in others' mouths." Constantly caring about others' gazes and criticisms will only make your life miserable. The best way to make others shut up and change how they see you isn't to argue with them, but to prove your strength with your abilities.
2026.10.06 PM 10:17 · View Count 5
Lv.94
minisheep
I agree.
Lv.1
埃卡
Don't seek validation from others; a strong mindset remains unshaken. Treat external opinions like passing clouds, and you'll find the world becomes clearer. Maintaining this indifference is the practice of guarding your inner self.

