빌리조엘
Post or Reply?
This isn't about what's good for increasing benefits. I returned in July after a year-long break, and not much has changed. Coincidentally, it was time for the community to change, and thanks to the benefits, I met my monthly coin quota for the first time in a year. Well, I'm happy. I was quite active in the community a year ago too. It suits my nature. I'm an introvert to the bone, but as an INFP, I surprisingly become an extrovert in anonymous spaces. I find writing posts much easier than replying. I enjoy writing, but I prefer to just post something and see the reactions, only replying when absolutely necessary. The other day, I complained after having several posts deleted, but I'll just write them again quickly if they get deleted. It's not difficult if I think about the topic, title, and content while walking. On the other hand, replying feels a bit draining because it involves interpersonal relationships. This is where my introversion comes into play. It takes more effort than writing posts. I have to tailor my replies to the person and think more carefully. 'When you reply, it becomes someone else's post; when you write, it becomes your post.' I apologize to those I couldn't reply to.
2026.08.18 PM 3:40 · View Count 108
Lv.101
한걸음또한걸음
How vibrant and rich with content would a post be, written by someone who's good at writing? It's a joy for the reader too.^-^ First off, thank you for sharing your deep thoughts, and your philosophy of viewing comments as relationships is truly admirable. If you feel burdened by tailoring your replies to each person, I will step back and refuse your comments, and also refuse replies. Instead, please just read.^-^ There's no need for a concept of exchange. It's true that comments are appreciated, but replies aren't obligatory. Writing, liking, commenting, liking – that's enough. If expecting the same from others becomes a burden to you, perhaps consider letting go of one or two things and focusing only on what you can take away. Isn't the reason we're in a community because conversations are enjoyable, and it's fun to see various thoughts and brilliant perspectives? I hope you can put down some of the burden and write at your leisure. From someone who finds your posts fun and good, Billy Joel.
Lv.109
TYTEM
I don't have much to say, so... posting feels a bit burdensome.. Maybe it's because I'm an 'I' type.. ^^ I usually leave comments when something resonates with me or I have something to say after reading various posts. Whether it's comfort, congratulations, empathy, anger, support, or occasionally correcting facts.. Oh, and sometimes I answer polls too.. haha. Have a peaceful night.. ^^😌
Lv.92
지나가는과객이요
I relate to a lot of this. I also prefer writing new posts to commenting, and I know I should just write without worrying about benefits like Billy Joel, but I can't quite do that. It makes me a bit sad. Even when I put effort into writing a post with a specific topic in mind, it feels like it's treated the same as just leaving a comment to show I relate to someone else's post, which is really disappointing. My initial goal was to write one post a day, but that feeling of disappointment makes me hesitant to write.