T types, can you explain this logically?

It's hard to explain liking someone logically, but elimination works. I've eliminated everyone nice and comfortable around me, and you're the only one left.

Honestly, I feel like they'd dislike it if I explained it logically, so I'd say something like this: If you can feel my affection for you, isn't that reason and proof enough? That's what I'd say.

It doesn't have to be that the reason I like you is because you're the kindest, most comfortable, and most outstanding person in the world. Of course, there might be people kinder than you, and people who make me feel more comfortable. But the fact that those people exist doesn't negate the reason I like you. What I like isn't individual conditions like 'kindness' or 'comfort,' but your personality, values, words and actions, the experiences we've shared, and the emotions all of that gives me. Even if someone with the exact same strengths as you exists, that person isn't the same as you, right? I'm not looking for the person with the best conditions in the world; I'm drawn to you, a specific person, among countless others. So, the existence of someone with better strengths than you doesn't seem to be a rebuttal to the reason I like you. Something like that..? lololol

Honestly, I don't really know the reason either. I want to find out why while getting to know you, what do you think? Actually, when I start liking something, looking back now, I don't really know the trigger for it.. It feels like I just gradually grew to like it, like getting wet in a drizzle? ( ￣▽￣)

If it were me, I'd list that person's strengths and what makes them different from others to boost their self-esteem. My self-esteem is already drilling through the floor and heading for the Earth's core...

It's the Kim Gura and Kim Seul-gi SNL version. 'You're the best person I could possibly meet...'

Honey, why are you asking again? Look in the mirror.

If you retort like that, I'll take it as a challenge (?) and retort back in kind lololol

I can't understand it, I can't explain it, and I can't calculate it, so I think it's love lol

I guess I'd say isn't it love because you like someone without a reason? But what if they keep prying? Just thinking about it is exhausting. I'd probably ask, 'Why are you even seeing me?', repeat the same thing, get angry, and come home. ㅜㅜ

Do I need a reason to like you?

There was no one prettier than you, and no one cute either. And there was no one who fit me as well as you did.

It's not showing up. If it does, I'm gonna get it out of my sight.

Tell us about the decisive event that made you fall for it, with an example.

lol

dunno

I'd probably say, 'I just like you because it's you. Whatever you do, I like it because it's you. Even if someone else did the exact same thing, I wouldn't like them.' Isn't it a bit calculating to explain someone's feelings logically..?

I don't think I'd go out of my way to find reasons to refute that. There might be people kinder than you, more comfortable to be around, or a better match. But does that negate the reason I like you? I usually have clear criteria for judging people and don't easily make exceptions in my relationships. But I think love is a bit different. Even knowing there are better people out there, my feelings don't change, and even if I see your flaws, I don't want to look for someone else. I can explain why I started liking you, but I don't think I need to prove why I continue to feel this way. Ultimately, it's my heart and my choice. There might be better people in the world than you. But what I want isn't someone better, it's you. Is that a sufficient answer? lol

I told my ex-wife, "Is there a reason I like you? It's just because it's you."