隨意交流

May your wishes come true And happiness always be with you

The autumn heat has officially arrived. Big respect to all the laborers working outside, you guys are tough! But once this passes, it'll get comfortable. Looks like it'll last until the Mid-Autumn Festival holiday, hurry up winter～～～

In front of people, you chat and laugh with ease, but after leaving the crowd, you often don't know where to go. Being able to socialize with a large group, but not knowing how to be alone with yourself -- Like many others, you often feel helpless with yourself. Before accepting others, reserve a tranquil corner in your heart just for yourself, a place where no one but you is allowed. With this private, serene corner, you can leave without worries and return without attachment.

That girl refused to wear pure white clothes, "Because I'm worried about getting them stained," she said. "White gets dirty the easiest, and wearing pure white clothes that are no longer spotless would make me feel like a stain myself." It's imaginable that to avoid romantic failure, she might have rejected dating; to avoid marital failure, she might have rejected marriage. Thus, you realize that pursuing perfection might be good, but insisting on perfection is too exhausting. Only by tolerating the imperfect stains of life can one get closer to true peace and freedom. Life should naturally have black, white, and colors, not be ruined by a fictional garment of pure white.

Eating dessert to reward myself

Story: The North Wind and the Sun were arguing about who was stronger. Just then, a traveler wearing a coat came along the road. They decided that whoever could first make the traveler take off his coat would be the winner. The North Wind first exerted its power, blowing a biting cold wind with all its might, trying to blow the coat off. As a result, the traveler, feeling too cold, wrapped his coat even tighter. It was the Sun's turn. The Sun gathered its clouds and shone warmly upon the earth. Before long, the traveler felt increasingly hot and voluntarily took off his coat. Moral of the story: Gentle persuasion is often more powerful than coercion; overcoming strength with gentleness is what truly wins people over.

Weirdly enough, I passed two, but I'm stuck on the third one, help!

I posted this before, but maybe the timing was off and it only got 10 clicks. I genuinely want to know, is there anyone out there who was fooled for this long like me? As far as I remember, Santa Claus always magically knew what gifts I wanted recently. Memories from kindergarten and elementary school: Santa Claus would hide the presents, and you had to be good and sleep early on Christmas Eve. Then, on Christmas morning, you could wake up early to find the gifts. I used to search in my closet or under my bed. Every time I unwrapped a gift, I was so excited and happy. When I got my own room in elementary school, Santa Claus started putting gifts in my Christmas stocking. Until the 6th grade of elementary school, my homeroom teacher somehow mentioned that parents lovingly play Santa Claus for their kids and give them gifts. Then asked us how old we were when we stopped believing. I… lowered my head and couldn't say anything. I was too embarrassed to admit I was still being fooled. I felt super embarrassed back then (though nobody knew). But now, looking back on this, I just feel so much love for my mom.

Attendance 18

My husband needed to enter a password hint for some registration, so I told him to ask me and see if I could guess it. 【What's your favorite color?】 Me: Black Husband: ...White 【What's your favorite fruit?】 Me: Wax apple Husband: Banana 【What elementary school did you go to?】 Me: How would I know? Husband: ..... 【What's your ex-girlfriend's name?】 Me: Get lost! It seems that even when two people are together, they don't necessarily know everything about each other. Like knowing someone's personality but not their favorite color?