shiowling
Mutual Understanding
As a marriage goes on for a long time, what truly wears people out is often not how much they've done, but how their efforts gradually become 'expected'. It's expected that you cook. It's expected that you take care of the kids. It's expected that you earn money to support the family. But marriage is never about one person owing another. Behind every effort, there actually deserves to be a 'Thank you'. No matter how close someone is, don't take their kindness for granted. Being seen, being understood, being cherished is often more important than a simple 'I love you'.
2026.09.20 AM 1:25 · View Count 9
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Lv.1
波芙
Being taken for granted after silently giving your all can be so draining and lonely, it's truly heartbreaking. Every bit of kindness and hard work deserves to be cherished. Please remember to warm yourself first. I wish I could give you a hug, you've worked so hard.
Lv.65
御守蓮
Great post. Spouses are fundamentally equal and complementary; there's nothing that one person is inherently supposed to do over the other.
Lv.66
北城霖
Thanks for sharing.
Lv.72
討厭鬼
It's really important.
Lv.56
只想耍廢的小文
Really
Thanks for sharing.
Lv.66
Nanci醬醬
How they think is their business. If it's not working out, then divorce. (Me, who just became single)
Lv.91
SindaW
Life is ultimately about the daily grind.
Lv.103
雪琉璃
So, why get married? Building a family together became an obligation, which led to the rise of non-marriage.
Lv.54
虎虎
I agree.
Lv.71
beckylin
Well said. It's like we have to do everything, and they can just be entitled lords over there.
Lv.83
小翔翔z
Thanks for sharing.
Lv.101
遊戲愛好者
Marriage is just a process, it's very different before and after.
Lv.59
蔡如如
Marriage means having one more person to serve, too tiring! Better to stay single.
Lv.86
亂我玩
Thanks for sharing.
Lv.71
光裔
That's right.