Something I must share

A long time ago, I thought about buying my mom a new phone with my first paycheck. But my ex-boyfriend took it all and gave me his old one. The phone he gave me cost over 5,000 yuan, and he never paid me back. He just kept draining my hard-earned money. He even dumped the cat on me. When we had problems to discuss, he never listened to me. If he couldn't win an argument, he'd just gaslight me. In the end, I decided to break up. It wasn't that I didn't love him, but he didn't cherish me. He thought I was just throwing tantrums at him. I had supported him for over a year, which was enough. I'll just consider it a lesson learned. After the breakup, we moved to avoid him from bothering us anymore. Don't even dream of getting back together! Also, when I was looking for a job, my younger sister and I bought our mom a new phone. Of course, my sister gave it to her first. At first, she got scolded a lot, but eventually, she loved it so much she couldn't let go of the brand-new phone. So, when I saved enough money, this time my sister and I pooled money together to buy a tablet. My mom was overjoyed. Actually, I used to knit scarves for my parents, but they were too precious to wear... I felt so helpless and didn't know whether to laugh or cry... At first, they rushed me to get married, but eventually, my parents stopped. Maybe it's because whoever I dated was bad, or perhaps fate just hasn't arrived yet. So, don't rush. Take care of your own health first and spend more time with your family. You also need to work, so my focus is on my family. It's better to support your family and pets than a man; they heal my soul. I love my family and my pets. As for a partner... maybe later. I just want to focus on earning money to support my family. What can I do, I'm the eldest daughter.