拆解人類行為：哲學 ＆ 心理

During my learning period, from about elementary school until my first year of high school, I was mostly silent (didn't speak). It wasn't until my second year of high school that I started interacting with people. I returned to that feeling of talking with people from elementary school (got closer). But in these two years, when I talk with classmates, I often encounter a problem. That is, my bottom line is often in a very strange place. They don't seem to be fully embodying their persona. Today they are nice to you, respect you, occasionally poke you, mess with you, and even infringe on your personal space (actually, I'm fine with it, guys play like this, and if I'm messed with, I mess back, it's just a way guys interact), but the next day they explode over a trivial matter. Whether I'm involved or not, I'm speechless to the point of wanting to laugh. Is it really that exaggerated? This is clearly much, much, much lighter than insulting someone's parents, and also significantly lighter than being called a 'sugar' yourself. But the other person completely flips out and acts like they don't know you, as if the past friendship has completely vanished (or maybe the other person doesn't think that way at all, and I'm just overthinking it). In the past two years, I've probably encountered about two such people. Anyway, the main question is why some people are so outwardly outgoing that others think socializing is their hobby, yet have a low inner bottom line but don't react to severe insults. I have two possible ideas here: perhaps parents put too much pressure on them, and they try to alleviate internal stress through socializing, but it doesn't improve, and the stress accumulates deeper and deeper, eventually requiring periodic release (on others). Another possibility is that socializing itself is a source of stress for them, and my words and actions just happened to be the last straw that broke the camel's back.

Recently, I've found some posts with pretty good content, but they're posted in weird places. I guess they're all here to earn gems though 🤭🤭 This post should be discussed here 😎

I feel like it's not popular and I don't have much time to write often. Also, not many people comment on other things 😅 Was thinking if I should lean more towards philosophy? 🤔

I know staying up late isn't good, but I'm curious about reasons beyond that. Is it fear of sudden death or other accidents? My grandma looked at me once, shook her head, and said, 'You're still awake this late, how pitiful.' It's happened many times, but I still have no clue.

(Metaphysics: Nature of Time) Q: The nature of time: Do the past and future truly exist? Or is only the "present" real? A: "Simultaneous existence." To put it bluntly with an example, in terms of time, today (the present) is the future of yesterday and the past of tomorrow. (Metaphysics: Spacetime Correction) Q: Since time exists simultaneously, is your life predetermined, can you change the future, or is the passage of time an illusion? A: No, I think although it exists simultaneously, it flows within a certain space (user is currently using it). (Philosophy of Mind: Collective Effect) Q: Then, is the driving force of this "flow" coming from the human mind/consciousness, or is there a force within space itself pushing us forward? A: I think we are reading this space. If space were pushing, I don't think there would be such a thing as a collective effect. 🤔 (Idealism: Consciousness Projection) Q: Are we passive readers (watching the plot but unable to change it), or are we co-projectors and fine-tuners (collectively creating reality)? A: I think we are co-projectors and fine-tuners. Research on reality has shown that when a collective group thought about good things, the world's crime rate decreased. (Social and Political Philosophy: Unequal Authority) Q: Since you agree that we can "collectively project and fine-tune reality," do you believe everyone's authority to fine-tune reality is equal? A: I believe the authority is unequal 🤔. But it's not because of mental energy, it's because of rights. For example, what a well-dressed person says will be more convincing than what a person in shabby clothes says.

Today, I was discussing fat-loss diets with another player and suddenly had a question: Why do I always feel like eating when I have nothing to do, even when I'm not hungry? But when I'm busy with work, I don't feel like eating even if I am hungry?

I'm thinking about submitting some philosophical ideas to the Public Philosophy support program 🤔 Does anyone have any topics they'd like to explore or suggest? (Although the one I'm preparing to submit leans towards life education topics like healing trauma) First, I'd like to ask everyone: If there were a project focused on life healing and emotional contemplation, when facing past traumas or the pain caused by social conformity, what topics would you most hope to see explored, or what psychological chains would you wish to break? I'd love to hear your thoughts and exchange ideas 👍

(If enough people ask, I'll share!) Ever feel like fate's singling you out? This isn't a bug in Earth Online; it's your inner fears "blindly selecting Hell difficulty" for you. In this game, three psychological mechanisms link up to form a wicked combo: [Past] Scar Effect (Permanent Debuff): Unhealed old wounds become shadows, making you overly sensitive and insecure. (Once bitten by a snake, you fear a rope for ten years) ➔ Transformation (XP Boost): See through the mechanism, stop avoiding it, and old wounds turn into defense and combat experience, leading to calmer gameplay. [Present] Law of Fickleness (Unlucky Passive): Being too afraid of getting hurt leads to excessive anxiety, causing you to fumble in the moment. The bad things you fear are precisely what happen. (What you fear comes to pass) ➔ Transformation (Lucky Attraction): Shift your focus to "I can definitely do this." Concentration will put you in a flow state, and the good things you anticipate are more likely to happen. [Future] Self-Fulfilling Prophecy (Bad Ending Unlocked): Mess things up and you conclude, "I was destined to fail anyway," giving up the struggle and walking straight into the future you least wanted to see. ➔ Transformation (Good Ending Achieved): If positive beliefs are deeply rooted, you'll become stronger with every challenge, personally fulfilling the boasts you made. (What you think, you become) Unlock the Perfect Ending. When these three connect, they become fate's "snowball effect": First you get hurt, then you start to fear, you expect it to happen again, and then it does. First you gain experience, achieve success, you expect to succeed, and then it happens. (Additions in comments)

Purely questions below (need your insights) In the lives of teenagers (though I'm still a high school student and haven't had a girlfriend), you often see couples who break up after less than a few months and immediately find a new boyfriend or girlfriend. They chat online, call each other 'baby,' and then break up quickly, with no further entanglement, acting as if they've never met. I don't know if there was any physical contact, but I can't understand this phenomenon. (I've watched too much anime, so I used to think pure love was the only normal thing 😆) It feels like they're just 'trying out' relationships, but their interactions seem fake. Their goal doesn't seem to be finding love but something else, which I can't grasp due to lack of experience. (Actually, it's just the nihilistic feeling of not being able to get a girlfriend 🫪😆 Just in case someone replies with this, I'm saying it first.) I hope you can shed some light on this. Despite saying all this, I've been confused for three years (Wow, I'm rambling a lot.)

Seeing a large number of people online blindly following trends, trampling on others, and having no sense of boundaries, people always criticize them as 'inherently evil'. Actually, this isn't a matter of good or evil, it's purely because 'blindly following and not thinking is the shortest path for the human brain to achieve simple results'. Analyzing and thinking is too tiring, so acting by directly applying the stereotypes and rules given by the environment saves the most mental energy. It's like how I used to deliberately play with and kill insects like ants and millipedes when I was a child, but now as an adult, I can barely stand to look at them. This is because in childhood, I had no concept of life and death and couldn't judge life; it was purely for fun. That cruelty at the time stemmed from 'ignorance'. And the blind following and trend-chasing of modern people on the internet often stems from a lack of awareness of the consequences. When we stop thinking and act by directly applying the rules given by the environment, we are actually, unintentionally, repeating the cruelty that arose from ignorance, just like I did in my childhood.