隨意交流

Mid-Autumn Festival is approaching, does anyone have any activities planned?

My husband and I's daily life. Whether it's a holiday or after work, we come home and it's the same routine. Each of us stays in our own space, playing on our phones. Is this what they call married life??????

Because it's my husband's birthday, I decided to take him to Xújí, which he's been dreaming of! We booked for dinner, hoping for a perfect experience!

Life is inherently difficult, but you are stronger than you think. It's okay to fall, it's okay to rest when you're tired, it's okay to cry. As long as one day, you're willing to get back up and take another step forward, that is courage. True courage isn't about never falling, but about being able to tell yourself after falling: "Alright, let's try again." May you not forget to gently believe in yourself, even on the tough days.

Suddenly started coughing, then felt a weird dampness in my lungs, got sick again. Autumn is here and the weather's nice, but the temperature difference is big. Everyone should take care not to catch a cold.

For my first meal this afternoon, I decided to wash and eat a head of broccoli🥦 As I was washing it, I felt like there were quite a few bugs. They were small and black. Not like the plump, blue-green caterpillars I've encountered before🐛 Even after soaking in salt water, more bugs floated to the surface. After quite a bit of effort, I boiled it. To my surprise, over 10 more bugs came out in the boiling water. You really can't be too serious about eating broccoli. It's more about the concept of supplementing fiber and getting some protein. All I can say is... This vegetable is so fresh, has so many bugs, and is so troublesome🫠

As a marriage goes on for a long time, what truly wears people out is often not how much they've done, but how their efforts gradually become 'expected'. It's expected that you cook. It's expected that you take care of the kids. It's expected that you earn money to support the family. But marriage is never about one person owing another. Behind every effort, there actually deserves to be a 'Thank you'. No matter how close someone is, don't take their kindness for granted. Being seen, being understood, being cherished is often more important than a simple 'I love you'.

It's Sunday again! Did everyone get enough rest? Or did you go out and have some fun? Whatever you did, don't stay up too late. Pulling all-nighters is bad for your health.

As life has unfolded, I've come to slowly understand: You don't need someone to accompany you on every path, And you don't need to explain every grievance to others. Some hardships, you have to endure yourself; Some exhaustion, you have to overcome yourself; Some feelings, only you yourself understand best. But precisely because I've been through these things, I cherish the current me even more. No longer will I compromise myself to please someone. No longer will I get caught in a cycle of self-torment over someone else's words. Not rushing to prove myself, nor rushing to compare. I'll simply live my life well, shaping it into a form I love. Slowly walking, tasting the bitterness and sweetness alone, waiting for the flowers to bloom. The flowers don't need to rush to bloom, And life doesn't need to rush to account for itself to anyone. As long as today's me, Is a little more loving towards myself, a little freer, a little happier than yesterday, That is the best growth. In the days to come, May our eyes hold light, our hearts hold love, And may we always retain the courage to choose our own lives. Cheers to the years, and cheers to myself.

Let the one you love soar freely as they wish, You say loving someone means giving them freedom. Yet, you worry: Will they be safe and sound? Will they be happy and joyful? Will they miss you every moment, Just as you miss them every moment? You grant them freedom of action, But bind yourself in layers with your worries. Such love, in turn, makes you unfree. And if they sense your unease, How can they truly feel free? So, my dear, freedom isn't just a verbal promise, It's also wholeheartedly trusting the other person. Only trust can truly untangle each other's bound wings.